5 Types of Men Who Want a Loving FLR

It’s not enough to acknowledge that you want a Loving FLR. Deciding to embrace a Loving FLR is like saying you want cereal. Which kind of cereal do you prefer?

If your answer to that question is complicated then imagine how complex it will be to find a good match for a Loving FLR. Whether you are a man or a woman, the type of person you partner with has to match your specific needs and motivations. I take care to assess both men and women who join the FLR Matchmaking Service to determine who will be a good fit for each other based on my personal interactions with hundreds of men and women who express their desire for a Loving FLR.

Take a look at these descriptions for the 5 types of men who want a Loving Female Led Relationship and see for yourself. There are benefits to being with every type of Loving FLR seeker but there are also drawbacks.

Alpha Men

There are men who are considered to be Alpha men and want to a woman to be a leader so that they can relax mentally when they are at home. Although they are good at being a leader they can secretly resent their leadership role and they crave being able to sit back and be told what to do and how to do it, which would bring them relief.

Pros: Being in a Loving FLR with an Alpha man has its perks. He will probably earn a decent enough living so that a woman will never have to work. He will gladly provide anything that she wants as long as she tells him what she wants explicitly.

Cons: If she does not tell him what she wants explicitly so that he never has to guess, he will not make any effort at all. He doesn’t want to think. He only wants to do what she says. He doesn’t take initiative.

Men who yearn to pamper and serve

In his mind he wants a woman to serve, to pamper and to provide for.

Pros: This is an amazing lifestyle for the woman who feels loved through a man’s service and devotion to her. She will have endless treats, getaways and breakfast served in bed. She will feel like royalty every single day.

Cons: The trouble with this type of man is he isn’t really allowing the woman to lead the relationship and create her fantasy. He is actually creating his own fantasy. What if the woman he is with enjoys catering to her partner too? What if she wants to work? What if she doesn’t like being pampered all of the time? This type of man would never be with a woman who is opposed to his specific idea of a FLR. He will only partner with a woman who wants to play out his fantasy of being her servant. If she allows him to be her servant and later changes her mind, he will create an excuse to leave the relationship because it will not be fulfilling to him.

Men who need guidance

There are some men who want a Loving Female Led Relationship because they need the guidance of a woman. It’s not that they are mentally incapable of supporting themselves, they just feel better when a woman approves of them. They feel that a woman who nurtures them and is patient with them as they learn and grow will help them to become a better man. This type of man needs a specific type of woman who is capable of nurturing him with kindness. He does not know what to do and he needs a woman to tell him what to do and how to be.

Pros: This man is basically a lump of clay and a woman can mold him into exactly what she wants him to be. She can tell him how to dress, how to speak, what to watch and how to view the world and he will do exactly what she asks. A man who needs nurturing would be a good match with a woman who gains satisfaction from grooming and guiding her partner’s success.

Cons: The type of woman who would be a good fit for this type of man is only a woman who does not have many aspirations for herself. A Powerful Woman with lots of obligations and responsibilities outside of her home would not make a good match for the man who needs nurturing because she will see him as an added burden.  A Powerful Woman needs a man who is capable of empowering her with very little instruction. She will be the biggest bitch to him when he falls short of her expectations. She is constantly giving instruction and leadership to everyone she encounters and she does not want to do that with her partner.

Men who are overachievers

There are men who are overachievers. These men want nothing more than to watch the delight on a woman’s face when he has taken care of a task she has given to him and exceeded her expectations.

Pros: These men like to feel as though they should be able to read a woman’s mind. They want to know her intimately so that they can deliver what she wants before she can even decide that she wants it. Offering excellence in delivering her desires makes these men feel like real men, like supermen.

Cons: A man who delivers excellence in an obsessive way may not understand that he is actually leading the relationship by thinking for her. He may view his service to her as supporting her, but if she does not have a say in how he ‘supports’ her then she isn’t really leading.

These men are a treasure for all women, except for sadistic women who these men are attracted to. These women will play mind games and will never allow him to know that he is doing a good job. Men of excellence in service to a woman crave being approved by the woman they love and a woman who withholds this approval is torturing  and abusing him. He needs to leave that relationship immediately.

Men who believe women are superior

There are some men who want a Loving FLR because they enjoy the feeling of being in the presence of greatness and they feel inferior because of it. They enjoy feeling inferior. They want to be with someone who outshines them in every way. They feel powerful by the fact that they get to stand beside a woman who is much more amazing than they will ever be.

Pros: These men seriously worship women and don’t mind letting everyone know this publicly. There will never be cheating or disrespect. These men understand that they have hit the jackpot in finding a superior woman and they will never walk away from it.

Cons: The drawback to these type of men is the fact that they will not accept a woman who adores them back. Any positive comments, kind gestures or tokens of appreciation offered to this man on a consistent basis will decrease his respect for the woman.  She will feel stifled because he won’t allow her to naturally express her appreciation for him. He believes that he is inferior and a woman should never place him in a situation where the focus is on celebrating him or she has reduced her greatness in his eyes.

Are these archetypes true for you? Which one are you?