17 Responses to “My Husband Has To Obey Me

  • Ashley, Thank you for sharing your story, your relationship, and beliefs in female supremacy. My wife/Goddess is quite similar in her leadership over me. I agree with your beliefs and like me your husband is blessed to have a strong confident lady like you to obey and please.

    I also follow my wife’s lead and obey her at all times.

  • Steve, You are a wise man. A happy Wife is a happy life.

    • Thank you Ashley. Yes, I love to please her, make her smile, and make her life as easy as possible each and every day. She leads our household and I support her attentively with whatever she asks.

  • Wow Ashley. I am a submissive man, and wish my wife would assume more authority over the various “areas” of our relationship. You sound very powerful. OMG!

  • Ashley,
    All I can say is “wow.” Believe it or not, for me it was having female bosses that first showed me the way to appreciate their leadership, and later to understand that I wanted that same strong feminine authority in my personal life as well. But I wasn’t really ready to give up my sense of equality and submit to punishment as well. After reading about your relationship, I now understand that you cannot be in charge and allow disobedience, so your authority has to include the option of discipline too, just as it is there in the workplace. Thank you for helping me understand my role in the FLR I seek.

    • I wrote an online poll some time ago where one of the questions was, “do you prefer a male supervisor, or Female supervisor?” I think it was near 90% preferred a Female supervisor. Women manage, on average with a lot less “ego” issues, and are more inclusive and collaborative in their decision-making (my Female boss is not intimidated by bottoms-up management where people doing the work are actually listened to and at times have effect on the final decision).

  • Dear Ashley,
    Thank you for this candid and concise story about your FLR. As a submissive and actively cross-dressing man, I fully agree with your assessment that women are much better at leading a marriage type relationship. My Wife and I have just started exploring and practicing the dynamics of a loving FLR/WLM, finally at age 70+. It took my wife a long time to become open to such exploration. She is now “officially’ my Wife-Mistress and I am her obedient Husband-Housewife. For me it meant giving up control and putting my (mostly destructive) male EGO aside. It has brought much needed peace to our marriage, and a rekindling of our love for each other. Old fashioned gallantry has returned as well to our marriage, and I never fail to show her respect through a curtsy when serving her, opening the car door for her in public, etc. My reward is not only a much happier marriage, but also her permission for me to dress as a woman every night, obey her, and serve to all her wishes. She basks in our happy marriage, the love, respect, attention and adoration she receives from me, and enjoys her full decision power. While she listens always to what I have to contribute, she makes the final decisions. Finally, we are HAPPY!!

  • I was hoping this spew would NEVER been considered part of F.L.R
    who on the site is slacking and can’t find more intellectual women to write articles? Female Supremacy tends to overlook the very basic fact women give birth to men. So
    If men are
    “inferior in abilities and role” than it the women who produced them.
    I’m from a matriarch culture a warrior tribe that many legendary wairrors came from.

    ” We enjoy dominating them, and they enjoy being dominated.” Is the type of kink/fetish b.s you can find on any wank site.

    • W.S. I prefer to think that when God created us She wired men and Women differently. Our modern cultures (multiple nations) happen to play to our strengths, and the ways we are wired. We can’t help it if we rise to the top of relationships because we are out-achieving men in education, because we are better communicators, because both sides of our brain address the same issues at the same time in communication with the other side, because we see bigger pictures more practically and therefore make better decisions and are better problem-solvers, or because our management styles are serving the professional world better. I personally advocate for men to do the best they can, compete as well as they can, and rise as close to the top as they can. But in marriage even a huge majority of men admit Women are better at leading the relationship. Domination the way you are addressing it isn’t the issue. Effective Leadership is.

  • This smells fishy Te-Erika. You sure it’s not a guy that sent you this?

  • This sounds very much like a submissive male fantasy. Sorry. 🙂

    • You are right on with that. It’s ridiculous fantasy posed as reality. If she truly believes what she says then she’s very ignorant.

  • I find it difficult to follow/respect my supervisors Boss, she constantly compares us to high end companies, but without the resources and financial support, we are always failing her goals. The company has a high turnover rate of men, and much lower turnover rate of women in higher more dominant positions. I’ve worked there for over 12 years, and do so ’cause I’m comfortable, not satisfied. I try not to complain, but when they ask the impossible, I do say no, and explain why, but I feel they see me just being bitchy.. I hate failing them and the whole lower workforce feels very unappreciated, I’m not surprised about the higher turnover rate. But that does not make it better.

    • I’m sure there are many exceptions to the view that Women make better supervisors. You say it’s your supervisor’s boss. How do you view your supervisor? How does she handle her boss? I have an executive position that is not supervisory, but I think highly of my supervisor, as do my male co-workers.

  • It would be great if you also wrote more about your life growing up.

  • Your husband is a very lucky man to have a wife like you. I would love to find a dominant lady like you.

  • You were given disciplinary authority over your father when still in your teens? I find that unusual, given his advantage in life experience relative to that of a teenage girl.

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