The term Female Led Relationship has many definitions and most are closely related to BDSM and kink. Today I want to help you to transition from those definitions because there is another beautiful option; you can have a Female Led Relationship without kink. You can have a LOVING Female Led Relationship that centers around a smart and capable man being a powerful helpmate to a strong and wise woman.
In a LOVING Female Led Relationship the woman does not have to exert control over the man she is with. She doesn’t need to use force or consistently punish him at all because he is willingly offering her his devotion and service because it makes him happy to treat her that way.
Just like there are multiple hues of the color blue, there are variations of FLR’s. There is nothing wrong with any of the variations as long as the couple feel satisfied by their choice.
The FLR you have chosen to focus on is a LOVING FLR that is based on mutual respect between the two people involved. When a couple has mutual respect for each other and their relationship is not based on kink, she is not expected to offer harsh punishments and keep him in line through fear. She doesn’t need to choose which colors he wears or keep him in chastity, unless it’s fun for her to do so.
He behaves like a gentleman because that is who he is at his core. If you have a partner who needs you to force him to do things, he is not looking for a LOVING FLR, he is looking for a kink-based FLR where his needs are a priority.
In a LOVING FLR the man has one desire- to please the woman.
In a LOVING FLR the woman has one duty- to express what she wants from him and accept nothing less.