We Finally Settled Our FLR
Hello everyone. I would like to take the time to thank Ms. Te-Erika for helping my wife and I to settle our FLR. We had been trying for almost a year but it wasn’t working out. It was a circle of fights even though that is not what I wanted us to be.
We even stopped sleeping together for a while when she told me that she didn’t think she loves me anymore. I didn’t know what to do so I reached out to Ms. Te-Erika and asked her for advice. She advised me to have my wife and I join one of her coaching programs. I chose the FLR Coaching by Email because I didn’t know if my wife would be ready for anything other than emails and it worked out to be the best thing.
We would sit there together each night to answer the questions Ms. Te-Erika sent by email and it was not fun at first because she had us answer in one email together so there were things we shared with Ms. Te-Erika that we had not shared with each other. I could see why she felt that she didn’t love me anymore. I wanted to change but I didn’t know how. When I would ask her what she wanted she would not respond or respond in tears.
Fortunately through a lot of back and forth emails in the coaching, my wife and I were able to realize the problem. The problem was that I was trying to make her be who I wanted her to be and on her end she never wanted to say what she wanted from me. We spent the entire 4 weeks being guided by Ms. Te-Erika to explore our issues one by one and understand what was wrong. Ms. Te-Erika was not afraid to let us know exactly who was wrong and why and what we needed to do next. I have been to therapy and the therapist never told me what I needed to do. So glad this was different. We had a clear plan once we were done and clear rules to live by.
It’s been a month and I wanted to reach out and say thank you for this program. It was a tough 4 weeks but it was worth it and now my wife loves me again and I know how to love her the right way.