What are the Benefits of a Female Led Relationship?
Female Led Relationships are a benefit to society as a whole because any woman who experiences being unconditionally supported by a man who adores her develops a confidence that can not be developed by any other relationship experience.
Fewer arguments and misunderstandings.
Because there are no longer any issues with a power struggle, the couple in a Female Led Relationship enjoy each other’s company with fewer arguments than the traditional relationship. The roles are clearly defined and expectations are set upfront which makes for easier communication. There are fewer misunderstandings because he no longer views the relationship as something he has to control. He no longer sees her as a woman he must subdue.
She gains the FREEDOM to develop into the woman she wants to be without interference.
When a woman is supported unconditionally by the man she loves, she feels as though she can walk on water. Every person she encounters can feel the power and love behind her smile. She dreams bigger and achieves more in life because she knows without a doubt that someone values her opinions and desires.
Feelings of Safety.
She feels safe in this world with him by her side and that feeling of safety translates to treating others with more kindness and love. He feels grateful that he has found a woman who can appreciate his tenderness and loving nature. He is proud to be alive and to partner with a woman who respects who he really is.
He knows exactly what she wants from their relationship.
He never has to guess whether or not she is happy with him because she will tell him. He always knows where he stands with her and does not have to play off of her unspoken emotions.
Greater focus on family goals.
The couple engaged in a Loving Female Led Relationship can focus more freely on the progress of their family and their individual goals in life because the pressure is off as to who should make the final decisions for what is best. He understands the role they have decided for him to play and he can be free to exceed expectations by focusing on his role in the partnership while she understands her role as the leader and can make more confident decisions concerning their household knowing he will fully support her.
Greater attentiveness to needs.
Both parties enjoy greater attentiveness to the core happiness of their relationship because he is constantly seeking to please her and she is constantly thinking of ways to lead their family unit toward success. She grooms him with loving encouragement and he feels honored to have her offer him honest feedback and support for his goals. She understands that she must be a steadfast steward over their family’s health, finances and social activities to create a well rounded life experience for them all.
Better sex.
Because the couple discusses all expectations and desires, her sexual needs are attended to as a priority and she also attends to the sexual needs of her partner in the most loving way she can.
He can relax and be the nurturer he has always wanted to be.
Men in Female Led Relationships adore women and dream of releasing the part of themselves that wants to cater to a woman and make her happy. While engaged in a Loving Female Led Relationship the man can cast off all pretenses thrust upon him by society’s expectations and he can finally be free to be the loving, generous and kind soul he really is on the inside.
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Yes i agree
The world would be better off totally run by women
Agreed
If all the worlds leaders were women
We would be less likely to be at war and murder and crime would go down
Certainly if there was a gynarchy that would realy lower the figures
Wishing to meeta woman in the uk or Europe to have an flr
Te-Erika, thank you again for posting. It’s always nice to have the benefits of what we seek here, reiterated, especially for those of us not currently in a Loving FLR. Why are we doing this again?
I am trying to systematically go through some of the posts and write my thoughts, in the hope that some might have a different idea and present theirs… I want to pick all your brains!
For a few different reasons, now and again, I get discouraged in my search, but I am certain that what I have to offer, may be seen by someone as worthy.
It’s interesting that arguments and misunderstandings are mentioned first. I have experienced this in the past, where we each wrestle with our evolving selves and our re-aligned visions of the future as new situations and challenges arise. We each have our ideas, yet no procedure for processing all this information. There can only be one driver…
Recently, a wise woman mentioned to me about our different ideas of a Loving FLR, she mentioned that she saw herself as the Captain, and her potential partner as the helmsman. You can insert your pop culture equivalence…I had a friend into Batman and she compared her partner with Alfred’s relationship with Batman … there are many.
But as with a ship, there can only be one Captain. They take in all the information of navigators, meteorologists, engineers… even the cook, into consideration. The helmsman requests directions, and carries them out… always with the last chance at noticing the iceberg… but that’s it.
If there is no Captain… everyone vies for hands on the wheel and the ship either goes in circles, goes nowhere, or collides with something. It’s just more effective and efficient to have someone designated with the final say… taking into consideration the lowest rank…all for the greater good.
A Loving FLR, to me, just seems the most sensible hierarchy. Efficient and effective … to allow everyone safe passage through all seas.
I think the rest of the benefits…after arguments and misunderstanding, just flow from there… we have the freedom of the seas, we are secure in knowing that “the team just works” (wasn’t that the Aus Navy recruiting slogan?), we all know what’s expected of us, we can focus on where we need to go and what we need to do once there, we can all focus on our roles, and our tasks are more thoroughly done.
…and from there the cycle just continues… no arguments, no misunderstandings… and it all gets done… all to better serve our “Captain”.