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Do you want a Loving FLR or a Femdom Relationship?

This website promotes Loving Female Led Relationships, relationships that empower women. The premise of a Loving FLR is that the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship and her partner is delighted to support her happiness in any way that he can. In fact, he believes supporting her happiness is his privilege. But sometimes
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3 Misconceptions about Loving Female Led Relationships

The term Female Led Relationship (FLR) appeared first within the context of the BDSM community but its members distorted the term so much that I felt it was necessary to redefine it and clarify how their definition was destructive to women. I decided to add the qualifier ‘loving’ to the title to differentiate it from
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The FLR Dating Roster Introduces Singles Seeking a FLR

Connect with other singles from around the world who want a Loving FLR as much as you do by joining the FLR Dating Roster. Your registration allows: Lifetime access to our FLR Matchmaking ServicesBe the first to be contacted when a new member joins in your areaParticipate in the pool of candidates that our PREMIUM Matchmaking
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How Do I Get My Wife to Take Control in a FLR?

Dear Te-Erika, I am 56 and an estimator. I want to serve my wife and be treated as a sex toy, she will on occasion but I want it full time. How can I get her to take control and lead a FLR? — N Hello. This is the most common question I receive as
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Fetish Play Alone Cannot Set The Foundation for a Relationship

I have always admired strong, intelligent women who demonstrate their given inner powers. A combination of those traits long ago grew in me a strong sexual fascination for such women, and an inner desire to be led by and to serve such a woman, a social and cultural taboo. This led me to become acquainted
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I Am Attracted to Strong Women

I am attracted to strong and independent women and hope to find one through the FLR Matchmaking Service who is a good fit with me. I am looking for a woman I can support, admire and adore. A woman that I can be proud to be her co-pilot, her vice president, her knight. I hope
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What If A Woman is Sadistic in a FLR?

Dear Te-Erika, You advocate that men not let their fears stop them from trying FLR. But there are risks. One is total loss of control of the family’s finances. I would assume this is one of the first “rights” that the man sacrifices to his wife. In a perfect world, no big deal – they
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Ivy League Professor Believes Men Should Take the Lead in Parenting

What an interesting article I came across today. Written in 2015 and published in The Atlantic, Princeton professor Andrew Moravcsik penned the intriguing assertion that more men should take the lead in parenting in order to support the success of women’s careers. Well, slap me in the face and call me Sally. That’s similar to
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How Can I Introduce a Woman to a FLR?

Dear Te-Erika, I am a 58 year old bartender. I have been in the service industry for over 33 years. I have a difficulty in finding women that are open to a FLR. Is there some commonality that I am overlooking? Is there some way that I can take someone who has not considered a
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Why is it difficult to find a partner for a Loving FLR?

After being an advocate for Loving Female Led Relationships for 5 years, interviewing dozens of couples and hundreds of singles, I can feel the underlying frustration that singles feel about their chances of finding a partner for a Loving FLR. I try to coach them and simplify the process but for some people, it still
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