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Ivy League Professor Believes Men Should Take the Lead in Parenting

What an interesting article I came across today. Written in 2015 and published in The Atlantic, Princeton professor Andrew Moravcsik penned the intriguing assertion that more men should take the lead in parenting in order to support the success of women’s careers. Well, slap me in the face and call me Sally. That’s similar to
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How Can I Introduce a Woman to a FLR?

Dear Te-Erika, I am a 58 year old bartender. I have been in the service industry for over 33 years. I have a difficulty in finding women that are open to a FLR. Is there some commonality that I am overlooking? Is there some way that I can take someone who has not considered a
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Why is it difficult to find a partner for a Loving FLR?

After being an advocate for Loving Female Led Relationships for 5 years, interviewing dozens of couples and hundreds of singles, I can feel the underlying frustration that singles feel about their chances of finding a partner for a Loving FLR. I try to coach them and simplify the process but for some people, it still
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How do I Meet Someone Who Wants a Female Led Relationship?

A LOVING Female Led Relationship is a relationship where the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship. She expresses what she wants and her partner willingly supports her decisions to create her dream life- together. He revels in the opportunity to give her what she wants. He feels like a real man, like a
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He Likes Being Selfish

He says he loves me but he likes being selfish. It’s been a few years since I have seen him. Him, who I have known for more than half my life already but somehow we never made it past ‘just friends’. When he looks at me I can see the hope in his eyes, the
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25 Ways to Please Me

I asked Liz, the latest member of our FLR Matchmaking Service to make a list of 25 ways she would like to be pleased by a Gentleman who wants a Loving Female Led Relationship and this is what she wrote. Do you think you can please Liz? Please Me Support me in my career Be
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Why FLRs are for Mature People

A Loving Female Led Relationship is a relationship where the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship. She sets her standards and expectations explicitly and he agrees to meet them because it makes him happy to do so. This seems like it should be a normal part of a relationship but it isn’t because
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I Thought Pleasing My Wife Was Unmanly

Dear Te-Erika, I want to express my compliments and gratefulness for your books “She Wants” and “How to love a powerful women: The Gentleman’s guide“, which I am reading with great interest. I am German, and the German literature on FLR is pretty much focused on what you term “kinky FLR” rather than your more
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Review for The Enlightened Submissive

Ms. Te-Erika,  I am so excited and inspired after reading the book – The Enlightened Submissive.  I believe you have changed my life forever, only for the better.  I believe that book has changed my mindset and now I can truly be a gentleman.  I am not a wounded bird anymore.  That book has diffused
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10 Rules for Online Dating Etiquette

I dipped into the world of online dating as a naive newcomer. The world, the nuances and the rules of meeting a person online was brand new to me. My first few dates were absolute disasters but I am observant, so I started noticing patterns. I realized a bunch of things and started implementing them.
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