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25 Ways to Please Me

I asked Liz, the latest member of our FLR Matchmaking Service to make a list of 25 ways she would like to be pleased by a Gentleman who wants a Loving Female Led Relationship and this is what she wrote. Do you think you can please Liz? Please Me Support me in my career Be
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Why FLRs are for Mature People

A Loving Female Led Relationship is a relationship where the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship. She sets her standards and expectations explicitly and he agrees to meet them because it makes him happy to do so. This seems like it should be a normal part of a relationship but it isn’t because
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I Thought Pleasing My Wife Was Unmanly

Dear Te-Erika, I want to express my compliments and gratefulness for your books “She Wants” and “How to love a powerful women: The Gentleman’s guide“, which I am reading with great interest. I am German, and the German literature on FLR is pretty much focused on what you term “kinky FLR” rather than your more
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Review for The Enlightened Submissive

Ms. Te-Erika,  I am so excited and inspired after reading the book – The Enlightened Submissive.  I believe you have changed my life forever, only for the better.  I believe that book has changed my mindset and now I can truly be a gentleman.  I am not a wounded bird anymore.  That book has diffused
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10 Rules for Online Dating Etiquette

I dipped into the world of online dating as a naive newcomer. The world, the nuances and the rules of meeting a person online was brand new to me. My first few dates were absolute disasters but I am observant, so I started noticing patterns. I realized a bunch of things and started implementing them.
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Is Cuckholding a Natural Part of a FLR?

I am from India, the society is still patriarchal over here and I belong to such a household. But I prefer to be in a loving relationship in FLR. I tried but failed many times. However I have one question everywhere I read in FLR or a bdsm Female dominant relation, cuckolding becomes a heavy
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How Does Polyamory Fit Into Loving FLRs?

Dear Te-Erika, I want my wife to see other men. I just think I cannot be who I am and everything she wants at the same time. I would like to know your thoughts on polyamory in Loving Female Led Relationships. ~R Dear R, This is an interesting question simply because it appears that you
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Does Kelly Ripa and Marc Consuelos Have a Loving FLR?

Who doesn’t think the morning talk show host Kelly Ripa is adorable? If you haven’t laid eyes on her husband Marc, you are missing out because he is just as adorable. In fact, throw in their adorable children and that household is right out of a sitcom! What I didn’t know was how the couple
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He Tried To Hurt Me Because of My Stance on BDSM

While focusing of my goal of introducing the idea that women can and should be the leaders of their relationships I encounter obstacles along the way. My biggest obstacle, in my opinion, is the fact that when I use the term Female Led Relationship, a quick google search returns porn or other information that describes
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Let’s Take Back the Term ‘Female Led’

I try to walk at least 4 miles per day. It’s my time to reflect without feeling obligated to take action on my goals. Today I was walking and thinking about my fight to win back the term ‘Female Led’ from the bowels of the BDSM community. Yes, I was introduced to the term Female
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