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He Tried To Hurt Me Because of My Stance on BDSM

While focusing of my goal of introducing the idea that women can and should be the leaders of their relationships I encounter obstacles along the way. My biggest obstacle, in my opinion, is the fact that when I use the term Female Led Relationship, a quick google search returns porn or other information that describes
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Let’s Take Back the Term ‘Female Led’

I try to walk at least 4 miles per day. It’s my time to reflect without feeling obligated to take action on my goals. Today I was walking and thinking about my fight to win back the term ‘Female Led’ from the bowels of the BDSM community. Yes, I was introduced to the term Female
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FOUND: Submissive Man on Tinder

I am on TINDER looking around, sometimes going out and having fun. The other day a profile came across my feed that made me wince. Meet Bill. Bill says he is 45 years old, and he is a submissive man looking for mean girls. His photo is a stick man with the word LOSER pointing
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You Get What You Want or Nothing at All

So I received some backlash about my story from my date this weekend. Apparently some men thought I was being too mean and stuck up by not accepting the man’s offer to cater to me and be my everything. The man I met was courteous, handsome and painted a wonderful picture of a long term
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He Wants to Cater to Me, but is that Enough?

So let me tell you how my date went last night. This handsome man picked me up, drove me to the beach on his scooter, had my favorite wine ready, nice music playing and we sat in front of the ocean as he shared his vision for a long term relationship. He explained that he really
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The Tasks For Men Program Will Challenge You

When men join the TASKS FOR MEN Coaching Program they get the opportunity to be tasked by a Powerful Woman and to be shared with other Powerful Women as necessary. Since implementing this program I have had so much fun pushing men to their limits by giving them tasks that are helpful to me and
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Why Does My Husband Want a FLR?

Dear Te-Erika, I have a husband who is interested in an FLR. We have been happily married for 24 years, and though he wants more sexual attention, our sex life is wonderful and we are open to experimentation. He has introduced me to many articles and books which I have read; and I undertake the
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The Number 1 Reason I Don’t Have a FLR Right Now

I know what I’m doing wrong. I know it yet, I can’t seem to stop doing it. It’s a cycle. It’s a habit. It’s keeping me in a repetitive mode that frustrates me and brings me peace at the same time. I am a relationship coach and I don’t even follow my own advice. It’s
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Are You Seeking a REAL Female Led Relationship or a Fantasy?

Most of this audience are submissive men who are looking for a woman to control and abuse them. Conversely, the women in our audience are spirited, strong and opinionated women with clear visions for their lives who desire a man who will support their vision, listen to them and appreciate the love they have to
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How Do We Stop Arguments in our Loving FLR?

Over our 26 years of marriage, it has been a very male led relationship. He earns a lot more. He takes decisions about where we go out to eat, going to cinema, etc. He makes financial decisions. He disciplines the children. Etc. Over the years we have tried a lot of different sexual things. He
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